Fri
Jul
3rd
2009

Muffins and God’s glory

This is a note that I was given by one of the members of Southbridge. It was a blessing so I thought I would share it.

On Sunday while I was standing with Anne, I was surprised to see a very familiar face pop up in my vision. One of my coworkers from work (like that wasn’t obvious) had decided to visit Southbridge with his family. So after giving him a popcorn box, and chatting with him, he left. Well today he walked into my cubicle toting a muffin in a baggie. He dropped the muffin on my desk and asked me what I knew about it. I was confused to say the least but began describing the physical attributes of his muffin to him. He stopped me and then told me that He was blessed to find two muffins and an information booklet on Southbridge at his house this week. He was so very excited about his muffin, but even more so he also said in all the Churches they have visited so far they have never felt so welcomed and wanted. So thank you so much. I know it blessed him and his family but his story definitely blessed my heart as well.

My heart just swells and bursts with knowing how much you guys are allowing God to move and breathe through you. It’s been amazing to watch and be a part of in the last year…People are being affected by the Glory of Christ through Southbridge, which is such an incredible thought. So basically I wanted you all to know that you are very loved and appreciated and prayed for.

Jesse, please keep praying for lives to be changed by Jesus Christ and for God to continue to use Southbridge and the people of Southbridge (like you)to do it.


Thu
Jul
2nd
2009

Fearless Father Forum lessons

These are a couple of things I took away from the fearless fathers forum:

A couple take aways:

1. When we confess our sin that is it. We are forgiven. Stop doing it and move on!

2. Men need some real relationships not just more guys to hang out with. That means other men who will look them in the eye and ask them tough questions.

3. I don’t think most men have ever had a spiritual mentor.

4. We are to talk with our children about what it means to love God with all of our heart, soul, mind and strength when we sit at home, when we walk along the road, when we lie down and when we get up.

What does that look like? It looks like  not only wanting what is best for them, but doing something about it. Something like spending time with them (quantity time). It means having the difficult talks with them about bad decision making leading to bad results. It means disciplining them when they disobey. It means holding them and loving them and learning to communicate with them. It means telling them the truth about your own relationship with Jesus Christ.

5. Jason Tovey our Shepherding Pastor wrapped up and reminded us God wants what is best for our children even more than we do.


Wed
Jul
1st
2009

It’s Our Anniversary

Today is the day Shanna and I celebrate 9 years of marriage. 9 years ago today we stood and made a promise before God and our friends to love and cherish one another exclusively until death.

It has been an adventurous and exciting 9 years. We laughed as we prayed together this morning before I left. We have been through a lot together. I think of the difficult issues like losing loved ones at one end of the spectrum to times of seeing God come through in what seemed like impossible circumstances at the other end of the spectrum. Now there is the daily adventure of raising two (soon to be 3) children while also starting and leading this church Southbridge. It has not been easy, but it has been great. We will go out tonight and have a nice dinner and talk about what lies ahead.

I thank God for giving me such a wonderful lover, friend and teammate.


Tue
Jun
30th
2009

Fearless Fathers Forum

Last night we packed out the meeting space room with fathers and soon to be fathers who wanted to talk about what it looks like to be fearless fathers the kind who embrace their failure and aggressively pursue Jesus. There were three objectives of the night:

1. Own up to our failures.

2. Step up to our responsibilities.

3. Begin a conversation about how to step up to our responsibilities as fathers.

We started the night with a time of repentance and prayer followed by a very brief challenge by me to our men from Ephesians 6:4 which reads: Fathers, do not exasperate your children; instead, bring them up in the training and instruction of the Lord.

We then began our conversation about how to do this by introducing a panel of fathers who while not perfect have aggressively pursued Jesus and pointed their children to Christ. Our panel consisted of: Mike Michaels, Graham Self, Danny Lotz and Jim Young. We were led through this time by Allin Foulkrod. I want to thank these men for their willingness to share with all of us there that evening. Thanks guys.

Allin fielded questions that our men had written out for him and the questions consisted of everything from, “How do you discipline a 2 year old?” to topics like confessing sexual sin and regret. It was a great step for our men to begin to have this conversation about how to be fearless fathers. I believe we established a place where we can have some real conversations about how to be men who are not afraid to lead our families not only physically, but spiritually.

Fearless fathers have an overwhelming responsibility that cannot be delegated to the church, to mom, or to the anyone else because fathers are responsible to lead their families. We desire to equip our fathers the best we possibly can to lead their families. I believe last night was a step in the right direction.

For next steps our Dads were given a couple books Raising a Modern Day Knight (for Dads with sons) and She Calls Me Daddy (for fathers with daughters). Some men signed up for this Falls Men’s Fraternity ministry that we will be hosting. Some men even pursued potential mentor figures who were there last night (fathers who were further along in their journey of fathering and pursuing Christ). I thought last night was a win.


Sun
Jun
28th
2009

Worship

Core

Today we began our series called CORE. We are preaching through our five core values: Worship, Community, Growth, Service and Generosity. Today we started by talking about worship, asking the question: Are you the kind of worshipper God created you to be? We saw that God is actually looking for a certain kind of worshipper (John 4:23). We looked at biblical worship which is: Seeing God accurately and responding appropriately. We saw how Peter did this in Luke 5:1-11. You see this throughout the scripture in passages like this one in Luke 5 and other places like Isaiah 6. The pattern is people have an encounter with the living God and they don’t leave feeling all warm and fuzzy. They are blown away by who God is (holy and righteous), which forces them to reflect on who they are (sinful). However, God is gracious and allows us to speak with Him and be used by Him. Our appropriate response is like that of Peter leaving everything to follow Him or like Isaiah saying, “Here I am send me.” The appropriate response is a surrendered life. Like Paul says in Romans 12:1 “Therefore, I urge you, in view of God’s mercy, to offer your bodies as living sacrifices, holy and pleasing to God–this is your spiritual act of worship.” God wants a completely surrendered life.

We say at Southbridge that worship begins with a decision to trust Jesus Christ as your personal Savior and it continues as a lifestyle of responding to His revelation of Himself. Worship is not about singing a song, volunteering for a ministry, giving some money or anything like that. Worship is a matter of the heart. When your heart is surrendered to God those things can be great expressions of worship, but if your heart is not surrendered to God those things are done in vain.


Sun
Jun
21st
2009

Fearless Fathers

Many of our fathers made a public statement about their desire to be the fathers God has called them to be today. I was encouraged by the amount of men who stepped out of their seat and came forward at the end of both of our services this week to say they wanted to be fearless fathers. We saw from the Father in Mark 9:14-26 that fearless fathers: actively embrace their failure, and aggressively pursue Jesus. Men at Southbirdge were saying that they are not perfect, but they desire to aggressively pursue Jesus. Praise the Lord! Men stepping up to be the men God has called them to be!

As a follow up to today’s message the Fathers of Southbridge have been invited to a Fearless Fathers Forum at the Southbridge church office on Monday June 29th at 7:00pm. I am going to lead this time starting with a challenge to our men. Then we are going to have an open forum time of question and answer where our fathers and future fathers can ask any question they want to a forum of men who are leaders at Southbridge, and who have sons and daughters at various stages of life. I think this is going to be a great time for our fathers to sharpen each other and hold each other accountable to be real men to our families.

If you are a father and want more information about attending the fearless fathers forum email us at: southbridge@southbridgefellowship.com.


Mon
Jun
15th
2009

The Rece$$ion is officially over

The Rece$$ion is officially over. Well, at least our sermon series called: Rece$$ion is over. We wrapped up our series with a message from Luke 16 about God’s plan for our financial future. We saw that God often times uses crisis to create clarity, that God often times uses our obstacles as our greatest opportunities for spiritual growth, and that He has a plan for our financial futures even in the midst of a recession. Throughout this series we talked about having an unshakable foundation, worry, generosity, the good life and God’s plan for our financial future. God has used this series in my life to focus me on His plan for our families financial future.

recession

Some helpful resources that I recommend when you are thinking through your own personal finances are:

Surviving Financial Meltdown, by Ron Blue and Jeremy White (I mentioned this book a couple of times during this series).

Money, Possesions, and Eternity, by Randy Alcorn (A great book as a resource for a biblical perspective on finances).

The Treasure Principle, by Randy Alcorn (A short book that contains God’s investment strategy).

I would also recommend Dave Ramsey’s Financial Peace University. I have not completed it, but I have listened to some of the talks. Southbridge is also offering some small group classes called: The Road to Financial Freedom as a follow up to this series. You can sign up for those by emailing crown@southbridgefellowship.com.

Ron Blue in his book Surviving Financial Meltdown recommends these web sites for your personal finances:

www.masteryourmoney.com

www.mymoney.gov

www.crown.org

www.360financialliteracy.org/life+stages

He has more, but these should be useful.


Sun
Jun
14th
2009

The Generosity of Journey Church

Most of you know that last Saturday night our church trailer was broken into. We use that trailer to store most of our sound and video equipment for Sunday morning worship services.

One of the Pastors I have become friends with since moving to Raleigh is Jimmy Carroll, the Lead pastor at Journey Church. When Jimmy heard that our stuff had been stolen, he immediately emailed me and offered to let us borrow some of their equipment. I mention to Southbridge periodically that we are not in competition with other local churches, but if those local churches are preaching the gospel they are our partners. Jimmy and Journey Church gave us an awesome example of that this past week.

I just want to use this blog to thank Jimmy and Journey Church for their generosity. I am thankful to have churches like Journey who are also trying to reach this city for Jesus Christ.


Sun
Jun
14th
2009

SYU Canada trip

SYU is taking Southbridge’s first short term missions trip. I am excited about this trip as God has already been working in and through this team. One of the girls trusted Christ as her Savior as a result of going through the application process.

What happened was two girls were filling out the application together. When they came to the section that asked for a personal testimony. One girl asked the other, “What is a testimony?” The other girl used that opportunity to share her own testimony. (By testimony what was meant was; communicate how you came to know Jesus Christ as your personal Savior). She told the girl who asked about a testimony, about how she had accepted Christ as her personal Savior, and then asked the inquiring girl if she had ever done that. She said no. Then she asked her if she wanted to trust Jesus Christ. She said yes. She trusted Jesus Christ as her personal Savior. Praise the Lord eternity has already been impacted by this trip and they have not even left yet. Here is some information about the trip:

SYU Missions Trip Video from David Cook on Vimeo.


Sun
Jun
7th
2009

Someone robbed the church

This weekend was one of those weekends I don’t think we will forget anytime soon. We have had some special weekends at Southbridge. I think of the week we did cardboard testimonies, the week people left without their shoes, weeks where multiple people made decisions for Christ, and now this weekend. What happened this weekend? The church got robbed. No this is not a blog about people failing to tithe. We literally got robbed. Here is my version of the story:

It was Saturday night, I had just finished the final touches on Sunday mornings message. At about 8:30pm, I called our worship leader for that Sunday morning. We talked through the service and we were about to pray together, when I saw someone beeping in. It was Jon Cullen, our Family Pastor. I ignored the call. Then he called my cell. Then he called the home line again. I knew something serious was going on if he called that many times. I also knew his wife was out of town, so perhaps he had burned his house down, that or he was hanging out with John Piper after the conference he attended this weekend. Either way I called him back without knowing why he had called.

When Jon answered, I said, “Jon this is Scott.” To which he replied, “Hold on, I am talking to the police.” POLICE! What is going on? Where are you at? I could not ask those questions because he stopped talking to me. Then after what seemed like a long time he said, “Scott, let me call you back.” I said, “Wait. What is going on?” He said, “I am standing out here by our trailer (we are a portable church), and someone broke in. It looks like they cleaned it out.”

Sure enough someone had broken into the trailer where we keep most of our audio visual equipment for Sunday mornings. At this point it was almost 9:00pm on Saturday night. What happened then was truly amazing. People from Southbridge jumped on this situation and went to work so the hundreds of people who would come to Southbridge this morning would have an unhindered worship experience. Did we have the television in the lobby, cameras for the video venue, or all of the technical bells and whistles we have grown accustom to? No. But the troops were united and at work. The worship team prepared a new worship set (that was pretty much all acoustic in case the tech team could not get anything worked out). However, the tech team (whose leaders worked past midnight), went to one of our elders (Allin Foulkrod’s) office to assemble a temporary sound system and get a projector to show the words (from one of the guys laptops). If you were there in the second service we missed a slide on one song (I think because his battery was dying. Sorry, but one slide was not bad after all that had happened). People work hard every week at Southbridge, setting up, tearing down, etc. However, this week they were working extra hard and I am super thankful for all of them.

I reminded everyone this morning of a verse from Genesis: Genesis 50:20 20 You intended to harm me, but God intended it for good to accomplish what is now being done, the saving of many lives.

What man intended for bad, God intended for good. God united people so that the gospel could still go forth. We were reminded about what we really NEED (the technical aids are nice, but it was nice today taking a few steps back technically). We desire to connect people to Jesus for life change. Today we were reminded that all we need to be able to do that is:

1. Jesus.

2. People.

One of the ironic things about today was that I was already planning on speaking about generosity from 1 Timothy 6:17-19. The challenge was to hold all of our material stuff with open hands. God has a funny way of making sure we apply the truths He desires for us to learn.