Mon
Oct
19th
2009
0

Here we go…(Birthday reflections)

Thank you to all of my friends who have wished me happy birthday today.

Here we go headed into another year. I am excited about this next year. I have learned some valuable lessons especially over the last few years. Over the past few years Shanna and I have started having kids (at number 3 right now). Southbridge Fellowship has launched. We have learned a ton of personal, parenting and leadership lessons through wins and set backs. I think those things combined set me up to have one of the best years in my life.

Here are somethings that have make me believe that saying this year will be the best one yet is not just optomistic thinking: (these are also things I am incredibly thankful for).

1. I have more special people in my life than ever before (the most recent addition being our newest daughter). I have a wife who is willing to talk through where we are at and where we are headed. I would hate to ever just exist living in the same home together.

2. I just preached on Revelation 2:1-7 and keep thinking about loving Jesus more now than in the past. I hope that I will continue to love Him more each day.

3. I am surrounded by people who love and support me. My wife being #1. My friends, our staff team, my community group, our elders and those who keep me accountable, and some mentor figures.

4. I get to serve on a team at Southbridge with people who like working together.

5. The church as a whole is at a place where I think we are about to go to the next level in impacting this city for Christ. We have experienced some great numeric and spiritual growth. I think it is going to continue to deepen and spread.

6. There are enough knowns to think things are headed in the right direction (personally, with my family, and with the church).

7. There are also enough unknowns that it is still exciting, still requires faith, and still gives me the desire to keep pressing on. I could write out all that I think will happen and plan towards that but God is full of surprises which requires dependence.

Here we go… 33 years and 1 day.


Mon
Oct
5th
2009
0

A New Groove

I have not been blogging much since we had our newest addition (Jane Ann Lehr born on September 8th. She was 8 lbs 12 ozs and 21 inches. She is gorgeous). Now that I think we are starting to come out of the sleep deprivation mode I think we are starting to get in a groove. However, it is a new groove.

I have found that while we will do whatever God wants whenever God wants, life works best when we are in a groove. If we stay in the same groove for too long there is the danger that it becomes a rut. It is possible to begin to think it is the groove that is working (and not God) and start to depend on the groove, especially when that groove is working for you. Some people are still doing the running man (it worked for a time but it is time for a change). I am finding I function best with a groove, but it is healthy to change the groove from time to time just to keep things fresh. God is the one who makes all of this work. After all I would not even be breathing if it were not for Him, but I think the way He has designed me I function best with a groove (or you could call it a routine).

Does your life feel like chaos? Are you always doing things and never getting anything done? Where is your groove? Your life may look like me dancing at a wedding (that is not good).

Is it time to change your groove?


Mon
Aug
17th
2009
1

Decisions or Disciples? (Part 2)

When someone trusts Jesus Christ as their Savior they are born again, they are spiritual babies. Babies do not know how to feed themselves, how to talk, how to walk, how to do basic things to survive. We can’t leave people who are spiritual babies and expect them to know how to grow in their relationship with Jesus Christ. In the Fall we are going to launch some new programs to help people grow in their relationship with Jesus Christ. That is great, but the problem is programs do not disciple people. People disciple people. We as a church will only be as good at making disciples as the people of Southbridge are at making disciples. So the question for us is not a programming question but a people question. The question is; are the people of Southrbidge making disciples?


Sun
Aug
16th
2009
0

Decisions or Disciples? (Part 1)

The past several weeks we have seen several people trust Jesus Christ as their Savior. That is exciting, but it has me asking myself a question about Southbridge. Are we making disciples like we are commanded to (Matthew 28:16-20) or are people simply making decisions? Discipleship begins with a decision, but it does not end there. I wonder if churches across America are filled with people who have made decisions for Jesus Christ, but have failed to answer the call to be a disciple. The call to discipleship is a call to deny self and follow Jesus. How many people truly do this? If they don’t are they disciples or have they simply made a decision?